My man is just not making me happy anymore??

I use to see and hear it all for my man and he is making me feel less and less as a women... How? I never thought a man could take a womens feminity away but it seems I am loosing grasp and letting myself go. As a mother of 3 its easy to do because getting myself ready seems more odf a task after getting my young ones ready so its never really bothered me before but I am noticing small things that may seem as no big deal be a big deal.

We as women have to have certain things to feel better about ourselves and its the things that seperate us from the boys. Like a new panty and bra set, dying my hair, getting my nails done or doing them my self, a nighty or just a new outfit. i cant recall the last time i got to do any of those things, yes i do when i had my own money.

Im a stay at home mom and thats what i do clean after everyone in a big house that never seems to stay clean more then 10 seconds, cook, puyt awaqy clothes and go no where not even to shop for a loaf of bread. I feel trapped and im loosing my own feminity over some guy and instaed of letting it keep on going i am going to do something about it. As all guys I will gain all i feel i have lost and it will be to late for him I am going to be gone. Thank god i am not married to this jerk